
Local Lifestyles
PARTIES, SOCIALS & MEETUPS
Parties, socials, and meetups close to home, and a glimpse of who’s going before you arrive.
The lifestyle app
Velvet Hour is the lifestyle app for couples and singles, with a real community behind it. Meet people, join the conversation, and plan the night, all in one private, verified place.
Coming soon to the App Store. Join the waitlist to hear first.

More than an app
Velvet Hour is built for the lifestyle, and for the people in it. Beyond browsing and chatting, there’s a whole community to be part of: six rooms to talk, plan and meet in, groups for your city and your crowd, a feed of what everyone’s up to, and nights out you can see coming.


PARTIES, SOCIALS & MEETUPS
Parties, socials, and meetups close to home, and a glimpse of who’s going before you arrive.

COUPLES MEETING COUPLES
Couples meeting couples nearby, from easy first hellos to evenings worth repeating.

STORIES, QUESTIONS & PLANS
The heart of the lifestyle: honest stories, curious questions, and plans that start with a wink.

TRIPS, RESORTS & TAKEOVERS
Resort takeovers, lifestyle cruises, and getaways, with the people you’ll want to see there.

CONVERSATION & IDEAS
A place for thoughtful conversation, cultural finds, and shared obsessions.

PLACES, PEOPLE & RITUALS
Bars, plates, exhibitions, and the pleasures of a well-curated night out.
Local Lifestyles and Couples Connect are set to your area. The other four are worldwide. Members can start their own groups inside any of them.

01 · TRAVEL
Add a trip and Velvet Hour finds members who’ll be in the same city at the same time, so you can start talking well before you arrive.

02 · CLUBS & RESORTS
See who’s going before you go. Mark a night at a lifestyle club or resort, join the club’s conversation, and get a nudge when someone you like picks the same night.

Resorts & Clubs
More than 50 lifestyle clubs across Canada, the US, the UK and Europe, plus couples-only and lifestyle-friendly resorts, all in one guide. Every place has its own page, its own conversation and real reviews from members.
RESORTS
CLUBS
Sorted by distance, with the closest places first.
Star ratings and honest notes from people who’ve been.
Bookmark the places you love and follow what’s happening.
Missing your local? Members can suggest new clubs and resorts.

03 · THE LOUNGE
Private conversations with a little ceremony. Send “A drink?” in a tap, or make a proper plan with the vibe, the night and the place, and see the answer right in the chat.
Everything inside
HOME
Photos, posts and polls from your friends and the people near you, with reactions and comments. Plus the Daily Tease: one playful question a day, and everyone’s answers once you’ve shared yours.
DISCOVER
A curated gallery with a featured introduction at the top, or The Wheel for something more spontaneous. Answer each person with Not Tonight, Maybe or I’m Curious.
FILTERS
Couples, singles and throuples, ages, distance, interests and more. See who’s near you, online now, new here, or saved for later.
COMMUNITIES
Local Lifestyles, Couples Connect, Swinger Social, Travel Takeovers, The Salon and City Nights. Join groups inside each one, or start your own.
THE LOUNGE
One-to-one and group chats, private photo sharing, and Later for the conversations you want to come back to. Missed connections show who you nearly met.
A DRINK?
Send “A drink?” in one tap for tonight, this weekend or some other time, or Make a Plan with the vibe, the day and the venue. They answer right in the chat.
CALLS
Hear a voice or see a smile before you meet, all inside the app. Your number stays private.
THE KEY BOWL
Both of you answer privately. Only the things you both said yes (or maybe) to are revealed. No awkward asking.
GOING OUT TONIGHT
Post roughly where you’ll be and who you’re open to meeting, and see who else is heading out.
RESORTS & CLUBS
Lifestyle clubs and resorts with member reviews, who’s going, each club’s own conversation, and an alert when someone picks your night.
TRIPS
Add a trip and find members who’ll be in the same city on the same dates. Share it, or keep it private and just get the alerts.
PROFILES
Shared profiles for couples and throuples, joined with a private invite code. Public and private photos, your details, your interests, and vouches from members who’ve met you.
ACTIVITY
Likes, matches, comments, trip overlaps and photo requests, all in one place, with notifications as discreet as you want them.
VERIFIED
Every member passes a quick ID and age check before they can see anyone, and members can vouch for people they’ve actually met.
VIP
See who viewed your profile, boost yourself to the top for a while, and message people before they’ve joined as members.
The waitlist
Velvet Hour opens city by city, where enough people are waiting. Tell us who you are and where you are, and we’ll email you the moment the doors open near you.
You’re on the list
We’ll email you when Velvet Hour opens near you. Know a couple who’d love it? Send them this page.
Discretion, by design
Every member confirms their age and identity before they can see anyone. We keep the result, never your ID photos.
Private photos you share only with people you choose, discreet notifications, and the option to hide your profile or browse incognito.
Block and report from any profile or chat. Reports are reviewed by people, and photos are screened before they appear.